42% of young adults can't make a stir fry
According to a survey reported by the New York Post, 42% of adults aged 18-28 said they couldn't make a basic stir fry. 27% couldn't make a simple soup. The average American can only prepare 5 meals completely from memory, without looking at a recipe.
If you can't cook, meal planning feels impossible because every guide assumes you already know your way around a kitchen. AI meal planners like MealThinker remove that assumption. Tell it your skill level and what's in your fridge, and it suggests meals you can actually make. No culinary school required.
The numbers are worse than most people realize. The Clueless Cooks 2024 Report surveyed 2,010 Americans and found that 54% aren't proficient in the kitchen. Only 14% rated themselves as advanced or expert cooks. A Home Run Inn Pizza survey of 2,000 respondents found that only 33% of Gen Z consider themselves skilled cooks.
And it's not just skill. It's confidence. According to StudyFinds, one in four Americans are too intimidated to cook in their own kitchen. The Clueless Cooks report found that 78% of people say dinner is the most intimidating meal to prepare. HelloFresh's 2025 research found that 25% of adults skip certain foods entirely because they're not confident using a knife.
Every meal planning guide starts at step five. "Pick your recipes for the week." "Build a grocery list." "Prep your ingredients Sunday afternoon." That assumes you have recipes you can make, know what to buy, and know how to prep. If you hate meal planning, it's probably because the whole system was designed for people with skills you were never taught.
Nobody taught you and that's not your fault
Cooking skills used to be passed down. Your grandmother taught your mother. Your mother taught you. That chain broke.
According to NPR, home economics enrollment dropped 38% in a single decade, from 5.6 million students to 3.5 million by 2012. Over half of US states reported difficulty hiring qualified teachers. The classes didn't shrink. In many schools, they disappeared.
The gap shows up clearly in generational data. Instacart's 2025 survey found that 62% of Americans learned cooking from their parents. But that number is falling fast. 38% of Gen Z now learn from TikTok. According to a FindingTheOne survey, 72% of Gen X adults learned proper cooking skills from their parents and 85% can confidently cook a complex meal. Most Gen Z grew up without ever helping in the kitchen.
This isn't a discipline problem. An entire generation entered adulthood without skills that previous generations took for granted. Telling them to "just meal prep on Sunday" is like handing someone sheet music who was never taught to read notes.
What not cooking is costing you
A home-cooked meal costs about $4.31 per serving. Eating out costs $20.37. That's nearly five times more for roughly the same food, according to Escoffier's analysis of BLS data.
According to Deliverect, Gen Z households spend an average of $210 per month on food delivery. That's $2,520 per year on DoorDash and Uber Eats alone. The USDA reports that 58.9% of all US food spending now goes to food prepared away from home.
| Cooking at Home | Eating Out / Delivery | |
|---|---|---|
| Cost per serving | $4.31 | $20.37 |
| Monthly (1 person, 2 meals/day) | $260 | $1,220 |
| Annual | $3,120 | $14,640 |
| Calories from fat | 32% | 38.7% |
That's an $11,500 difference per year. Even cutting your takeout in half would save over $5,000 annually. That's not budgeting advice. That's math.
The health side is just as clear. A Fenland Study of 11,396 UK adults found that people who cook at home five or more times per week are 28% less likely to be overweight and eat nearly 100 more grams of vegetables daily. Johns Hopkins found that frequent home cooks consume fewer calories, less fat, and less sugar than people who rarely cook.
Not knowing how to cook is the most expensive skill gap most people have. And unlike other expensive habits, this one compounds. Every year you don't cook is another $2,300+ in avoidable dinner costs on top of the health consequences.
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How to meal plan when you barely know how to boil water
Traditional meal planning assumes cooking skills. Every recipe site, every meal prep guide, every meal kit. They all start from the premise that you know what sauteing means and own more than one pan.
MealThinker works differently. Tell it your skill level and it adjusts everything to your experience.
Meals that match your ability
If you're starting from zero, you don't need pad thai from scratch. You need rice and beans. A peanut noodle bowl with pre-cut vegetables. Hummus wraps. Overnight oats. MealThinker suggests meals you can actually make based on what you tell it about your experience.
No jargon, no assumptions
"Julienne the carrots." "Deglaze the pan." "Fold in the chickpea flour." If you don't know what these mean, a recipe is useless. MealThinker keeps instructions at your level.
It knows what's in your kitchen
The biggest barrier for new cooks isn't skill. It's staring at a fridge full of food with no idea what to make. Our free What Should I Eat Tonight? tool can help with that. Pick your diet and vibe, and get an instant dinner idea. Pantry tracking means MealThinker already knows your ingredients. Tell it what you have and it figures out what you can cook with it. No hunting through recipe apps for something that matches your random collection of groceries.
You get better without trying
Start with three-ingredient meals. Next month you're making stir fries. The month after that, curries from scratch. You don't need a cooking class. You need something that meets you where you are and grows with you, so the nightly dinner decision stops being a source of dread.
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Frequently asked questions
Can you meal plan if you don't know how to cook?
Yes. Traditional meal planning requires cooking skills because you're choosing recipes and building grocery lists from scratch. AI meal planners like MealThinker skip that process entirely. Tell it your skill level and what's in your kitchen, and it suggests meals you can actually make. Start with no-cook meals and simple one-pot dishes, then build up as your confidence grows.
What are the easiest meals for someone who can't cook?
Start with meals that need minimal cooking: overnight oats, wraps with canned beans and vegetables, grain bowls with pre-cooked rice and hummus, peanut butter noodles, and simple pasta with jarred sauce. According to the Clueless Cooks 2024 Report, 78% of people find dinner the most intimidating meal. Starting with simple dinners you can actually finish gives you the biggest confidence boost.
How do I start cooking as an adult?
Pick one simple meal and make it three times. Repetition builds confidence faster than variety. Don't start with a cookbook or a meal plan. Start with one thing you like eating (a bean burrito, a pasta dish, a rice bowl) and make it until it's automatic. According to Instacart's 2025 survey, 38% of Gen Z learn cooking from TikTok and YouTube. Short video tutorials for one specific meal work better than comprehensive cooking courses.
How much money can I save by learning to cook?
A home-cooked meal costs about $4.31 per serving compared to $20.37 for eating out, according to Escoffier's analysis of BLS data. If you currently eat out or order delivery for most meals, learning to cook even half your dinners could save over $5,000 per year. Gen Z households spend an average of $210/month on food delivery alone.
Can AI help beginners learn to cook?
AI meal planners aren't cooking teachers, but they remove the hardest part for beginners: deciding what to make. When the decision is handled, you only have to focus on the cooking itself. MealThinker adjusts suggestions to your skill level and works with whatever ingredients you already have, which means fewer failed experiments and less wasted food. Try MealThinker free for 7 days.